第229章 一封信
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<p style="text-indent: 1.24cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">先恭喜當爸爸 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>也讓我當阿公 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>更公喜的是 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>今年你從美國的大學畢業回國後 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>兩個月前我找到你的第一份正式工作 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>你找到工作 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我比你更興奮 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>因為縱是有個開始了<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">.</span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">其實 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>除了興奮 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我還有一點愧疚 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>因為你是我親自定了王品的非親條款 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>才讓你和妹妹沒辦法進集團任職 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>但我很堅定地相信 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>過了這個痛苦其 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">,</span>你一定會更加成長 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.3cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">記得你剛上班的第一個禮拜 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>就發了高燒 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但我也不敢過份關心 更不敢要你請假休息 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>因為職場上有標準有態度更有責任 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">; </span>我能做的只有叮嚀你多喝水 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>雖然我捨不得 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但這就是工作要磨練你的地方 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>越是辛苦 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>你越要告訴自己 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">:</span>好阿<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>正是我濃縮學習的時候<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">!</span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.22cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">你去美國的時候 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我定了<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">22</span>條守則 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>包括你要花光每個月的零用錢 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>把錢拿去開拓視野 廣交朋友 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>現在你出社會了 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我綜呵了自己的工作經驗 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>也有<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">9</span>點叮嚀 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">.</span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.24cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">1 </span>會說要會做 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>我看太多眼高手低 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>這是對他最大的傷害 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>例如 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">: </span>履歷上把自己的經歷說的天花亂墜 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但真的問他 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>又舉不出一個像樣的代表作 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>職場上 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>表達能力要強 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但不能吹牛阿 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>我寧願你一開始安靜就好 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>不過 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>過度謙虛也會顯的嬌情 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>所以 做多少 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>說多少 最符合中庸之道 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.28cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">2 </span>要累積 人緣 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但不要計算人脈 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>交朋友最重要的是人緣 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>不要動不動就講人脈</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">因為人脈指是過水是得友誼 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>太現實了 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>為人現實絕對是你前途的殺手 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>你將畢業時 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>曾在紐約已有限的經費舉辦了一個滷味<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">Party</span>從中午吃到晚上<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">12</span>點 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>來了一百多人 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>從這點我相信你已經懂得經營友誼 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.31cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">3 </span>做人處事要輕物質 重義情 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>那種還沒賺到錢 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>就急著買包包 車子的人 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>最沛人討厭 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>切記 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>事業與人生最重要的基礎 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>就是人緣 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>做事技巧與專業喊而是其次 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>而有情有義的人才會有人緣 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>我看到很多優秀的人才忙到睡在公司 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>這樣的人我是不用的 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>因為她連自己的小孩都很少回家看 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>那我怎麼知道在緊要關頭 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">,</span>她會不會為了功名利祿而背叛我 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">4 </span>找到永遠的事業 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>與其把目標放在超越老爸 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">,</span>我更希望找到可以永遠對經營的事業 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>對我來說 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>最高境界就是三業一體 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>職業 事業 志業 全部結合起來 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>這樣的人生才會幸福 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>但創業急不來 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我也是三十九歲才創業的阿 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>切記 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">: </span>成功不是第一個出發的 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">,</span>而是最後一個倒下的 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">5 </span>董的衡量犯錯與代價間的關係 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>你記得你在高中時 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>巷一個印度人網購了一台筆記型電腦 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>花了<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">1000</span>美元 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我明知道那是甲的 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但我還是借你<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">5000</span>新台幣去買 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>結果你盼望了一個月都沒收到 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>你後來抱怨我幹甚麼不早說<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>但我要你自己去試 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>讓你付出代價的挫物才能讓你成長 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>出了社會 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我人鼓勵你盡量嘗試 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>錯了也沒關西 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>只是這個代價不可以讓你 在回首以百年身 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">!</span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">6 </span>要學到成功的精隨 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>不要指學到成功的副作用 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>什麼是副作用<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">? </span>就是動不動就去品酒 跑趴 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>現在台灣 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>你不需要這樣交際應酬 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>也能做好一格事業 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>看到一個人成功 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>你應該去威覺她的成功前的努力精神 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>而不要只看到人家的成功後的浮華行為 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">7 </span>學歷擁無止盡 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>你大學畢業後 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>就決定回台工作 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>這是個負責任的決定 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但我還是鼓勵念到博士 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>音位學無止盡 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>而且很少友喜歡念書的人 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>會迷失在社會的大海中 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>就算迷失 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>也有智慧可以很快游回來<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>像我差點成為王品集團的決策中心裡學力最低的 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>所以趕快到台大<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">EMBA</span>念書 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>而且 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我還幫王品擬定一個十年計畫 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>希望十年後王品員工大學畢業者可以到達<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">9</span>成 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>這樣可以鼓立終身學習 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>大家也可以變得更有氣質 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">.</span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">8 </span>不要踩著別人的肩膀往上爬 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>絕對不要這樣做 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>因為一定會被別人看不起 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>影響到你一輩子的聲譽 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>我能願你自己努力 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>一步一步往上爬 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我不在乎你打底期有多長 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但一定要正當 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">第<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">9 </span>永遠過遮民的生活 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>不過貴族的生活 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>關於這點 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>其實我不太擔心 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>因為前幾年 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我去美國參加你的公證結婚 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>看到你和妻子為了省錢 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>熬夜親手握捧花 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>我只事提醒你 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>未來也要有這樸實精神 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>例如你買車買得比老爸貴 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>但你應適度投資在人緣上 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>有人說每天省一杯咖啡錢拿去投資 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, 10</span>年可以賺<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">100</span>萬 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">; </span>我告訴你 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>如果這樣做 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>會拆掉與朋友互動的橋梁 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">; </span>哪天有工作機會 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>朋友怎麼會介紹給你 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>說不定新工作一個月就差你<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">1</span>萬元了耶<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">以上是老爸傳授給你的職場經驗 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>也是人生智慧 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span></p>
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<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">常常有人年輕人問我 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>該如何選工作<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">? </span>我的回答是 正派的公司 就好 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>不要去管它大或小 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>因為大公司可以學到制度 小公司可以學到獨立 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>但任何工作 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>都應該從底層磨練起 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我很高興你現在工作很基層 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>領的薪水也很基本 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>這代表你可以學得很完整 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">.</span></p>
<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">也許你開始感是到壓力 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但有多少壓力 就會有多少潛力 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>跟我當初創業比起來 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>你算是幸運的 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>至少你不用每天跑三點半 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>還必須還出<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">1</span>億<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">6</span>千萬元 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">. </span>但如果沒有這種急迫的壓力 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>我的潛力無法被激發 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>可就沒有今天的王品集團了</p>
<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">兒子啊<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">!</span>老爸這一連串的叮嚀 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>不是要你跟我一樣 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>畢竟要超越我 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>有可能 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>但是會很累 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">! </span>我希望你能在不違背上述原則的情況下 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>勇敢自信的走出一條路 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>最好也有一套自己的風格 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">.</span></p>
<p style="text-indent: 1.27cm; margin-bottom: 0cm;" lang="zh-TW">南人就是要有自己的事業 <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>你已經賣出第一步了<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">, </span>加油<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">!</span></p>
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